when wat felt like urs now feels foreign.. when what felt like home now feels like its not meant to be… what do you do? face the truth and walk away or hang on to see if the feeling will change?
The characterization of a person as “beautiful”, whether on an individual basis or by community consensus, is often based on some combination of Inner Beauty, which includes psychological factors such as personality, intelligence, grace, politeness, charisma, integrity, congruence and elegance, and Outer Beauty, (i.e. physical attractiveness) which includes physical factors, such as health, youthfulness, facial symmetry, averageness, and complexion….says wikipedia..
delusional are those who only see beauty only from the outside…if u can look at someone u know… see them for what they are on the outside… and then think of all that they are on the inside (given that they great traits).. what u see outside instantly changes, they merge……to me, they instantly become beautiful… and ill always pick them over some vacant beautiful shell of a person next door….any time any day…
typical beauty, the kind of beauty that society considers beautiful.. is almost textbook defined…and Yes! they are beautiful.. but why must everyone need to look like that to be beautiful….? everyone is beautiful in their OWN way!… ppl forget that!…. that lil dimple that comes when u smile is a part of your personal,unique beauty!…. the way u walk is unique to you!! the way you smile.. no one can copy!!! and the list can go on n on.. why would everyone want to be the same? be like him (whoever) or her …. whats wrong with you (yourself)? there is no other like you!!! NO OTHER!!! Our generation is so delusional, following trends, beauty, celebrity etc that u forget… what looks good on them might look ridiculous on you! Young girls and boys need to learn to love themselves for their own uniqueness and learn to harvest, nurture, build, establish, create their own style, their own identity…that’s when u r truly beautiful! when you have found a way to reciprocate how u feel on the inside, bring that out…show the world.. who you really are!
those lil imperfections are unique to you! im not talking about deformities or scares etc… i understand ppl want to medically fix that n thats so normal! but lil things that ppl get surgeries for… girls with smaller boobs… u think kate moss got big jugs?? she is still hot!! right? how did that happen? embrace yourself.. you’ll see how u’ll start to shine for yourself, for the right reasons… :)
What is happiness for you?
could it be his expensive gifts? his pay check? ….perhaps? perhaps not?
… i’ve learnt… most joys come from such small meaningful events in your life…that it actually made me question.. what is true happiness? Those little gestures, those hidden smiles, those cheap pointless presents that express exactly what you feel, those moments when your heart heats up over nothing society claims special but holds so much significance to you….
those lil things did it for me ♥
- joys when you sit in the car in the dark, talking, laughing together….
- happiness when he holds your hand even when he is shy….
- excitement you feel when you sneak around together….
- fun when u run around drunk together making a mess…
- falling down and still be able to laugh about it…
- when you keep a conversation going for hours over nothing in particular
and still enjoy it….
- hugging him n feeling a sense of home….
- when u make an effort over everything u do together..for no reason…
- looking into his eyes and feeling comfort…trust…
i could go one for ages…………..
could those lil events define true happiness? in our materialistic world, true happiness gets lost amongst the midst….
i’m glad i found mine ♥ i hope u find urs….
………. i dont know if it ever occured to you… but people who are blessed with beautiful faces.. attractive, good looking people… have THE MOST deceiving faces…. you fall in love with how they look and how it makes you feel when they look at you.. pay attention to you..smile at you… but behind that face… what lies there? people only see her as they want… pretty, beautiful, they see her outter core… pity no one botheres to go deeper to see who she really is underneath it all…